HELLO
When I connect with others, I am invigorated by the promise of genuine and meaningful dialogue. To me, the art of asking insightful questions is a gateway to truly understanding someone’s unique perspective on the world and their core values. This curiosity is not just reserved for others but often guides my self-reflection as well.
If I turn this introspective lens inward, I engage with questions that reveal the tapestry of my life: Do I share my life with a partner? What story surrounds our meeting, and how did we commemorate our union? Am I a parent, and what stories from my origins shape who I am today? Which holiday is my most treasured experience, and what made it special? What is my vocation, and does it fill my days with purpose and satisfaction? How do I choose to spend my leisure time, and what significance does sport have in my life? Which sports stir my passion, and what deeper meaning do they hold for me?
If I were blessed with the chance to dine with influential figures from the past, whom would I choose to revitalize for a conversation under the evening stars?
These self-reflective questions are more than musings; they are the starting points of a journey into my narrative. They enrich my understanding of who I am and fuel my passion for forging authentic connections with others, each conversation unfolding as a shared piece of the human experience. Through these dialogues, both with myself and others, I aim to construct a life story filled with warmth, depth, and purpose.
My Story
Seoul was an extraordinary chapter in our lives, brimming with memorable experiences and connections. There, Neil and I forged a bond with three other couples—a Canadian pair and two sets of New Zealanders—that blossomed into lifelong friendships. Our group affectionately dubbed itself ‘The Fish and Chip Club,’ an homage to a rebellious New Zealand social group. To this day, we reunite every year, alternating gatherings between Australia, Thailand, and New Zealand.
Amidst the vibrant energy of Seoul, Neil and I yearned to start a family. We embraced the joyful decision to adopt a three-week-old Korean boy, whom we lovingly named Conor John Sung-jul Fletcher. Fitting that on a passport was quite the challenge, but welcoming Conor into our lives was an unparalleled joy, marking a pivotal, life-affirming moment that transcends any travel experience.
By 1998, inspired by a desire for change, we embarked on a new adventure. Through our Fish and Chip Club connection, we were introduced to Geoff Lloyd, the Headmaster at the International School of Moshi. I was serving as Director of Athletics and Activities, and when their Athletic Director sought a new post, we serendipitously switched roles. Tanzania then gifted us the next wonderful chapter of our lives—I became pregnant, and we welcomed our baby boy, Euan Campbell Russell Fletcher, into the world. True to family tradition, his name reflected a blend of heritage and affection. Euan, once a spirited toddler, is now a remarkable young man at 24, passionately raising funds for breast cancer awareness—a cause close to our hearts as my mother is a survivor. Meanwhile, Conor (now 27) thrives as a talented chef, passionately pursuing his culinary dreams.
Reflecting on my formative years, netball holds a special place in my heart. I competed at A Grade club level and represented my state, fueling a lifelong passion for the sport. Today, I'm an ardent fan, streaming games from wherever I am, thanks to Neil's tech-savvy solutions in Shanghai, which allow me to relish matches on the big screen.
Beyond netball, I delight in gardening, fishing, horse riding, and the companionship of my beloved husband. An enthusiast of various sports—cricket, AFL, swimming, and tennis (a loyal fan of Rafa Nadal, *sob* when he retired). I also channel my creativity into cooking, savoring the art of culinary exploration. I also love to read.
As for the intriguing notion of a dream dinner with historical figures, my guest list would certainly spark captivating conversations. Jesus would be the first to receive an invitation; I have countless questions about his era and his take on today's world, where he might captivate audiences on social media. With his profound impact on music and civil rights, Louis Armstrong would add entertainment and invaluable insight. Cleopatra intrigues me—I'd delve into the legend of her demise and life in ancient times. Finally, I'd welcome William Shakespeare, eager to discuss the contested narratives within his works, especially Richard the Third and the enduring mystery of the Princes in the Tower.
And that, in essence, is my story. I am Sue Fletcher, an international educator who teaches with passion, heart, and a touch of humor. Few are fortunate enough to anticipate each workday genuinely, but I am among them. I am driven by love for my profession and the profound impact I strive to make. (Painting of Mount Taranaki by Valma Taylor)
ABOUT SUE
When I meet people, I like to ask questions. The kind of questions I like to ask helps me understand their paradigm; what they believe about the world. So, if I were you, and I was asking myself a bunch of questions, I’d ask things like; do you have a partner? Where did you meet? Where did you get married? Do you have children? Where are you from? What’s your favourite holiday ever, and why? What do you do for a job? Do you like it? What hobbies do you enjoy? Do you like sport? Which ones and why? If you had the choice, who would you invite to dinner if everyone who is now passed was actually still alive? So, I’m going to start my bio there.
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